Archive for 'Judgments'

Judgments – The Comfort of Labels

July 2011

Labeling seems normal in our culture:  It is common in our culture to classify others by labeling them, to judge by deciding what is right and wrong or good and bad and then to assign blame.  This was a normal part of the way I was raised, and I find it typical in my daily interactions with others.  Think about how these three (labeling, judging and blaming) seem ...

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Judgments – Peace of Mind – Peace in the World

June 2011

I want peace of mind and peace in the world, and I am guessing if you are reading this so do you.  The question is, why don’t we have peace?  I believe what is in the way of peace for you, for me, and for everyone on the planet is what we are thinking.  It isn’t the thoughts themselves, it is that we actually believe them.  And it ...

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Judgments – Transforming Your Inner Judgments

FlowersApril 2011

When you regret something you said or did: I am guessing, from time to time we all regret some action we have taken.  The question is “what thoughts do you have about your actions”?  Generally, we have a certain way we talk to ourselves, or attempt to “educate” ourselves when we are disappointed in our own behavior.  For many of us, it is common for us to blame ourselves (I ...

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Judgments – What about these Judgments?

ContemplationSeptember 2010

As a young adult the phrase ”don’t judge or you will be judged” had been proven true to me over and over again.  My burning question was, “How did they know I was judging them?”  After all, I had not said a word to anyone.  For years I held this question and searched for an answer.

I have come to understand that there is an energy attached to judgments that others feel.   Whether there ...

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